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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 19.06.2025 07:45

How does one succeed in life?

What I need from you?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

How do I get a white man for a serious relationship?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

What if Homelander turned out to be a good guy instead of an evil milk drinking manchild? Nobody seems to touch on this much.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Can you share something that captivates you, whether it's an idea, a discovery, or an invention?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

That's it for today.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Sometime ago, the Iranian Minister said that a US Navy aircraft carrier would be an easy target for 300 speed boats armed with Katyusha rocket launchers. Is this true?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Does not procrastinate.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Do not set goals—set systems.

What are some sex stories from your college days?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Ask yourself:

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Procrastinates a lot.

When a dog smells another dog’s poo or wee, do they then remember that scent for when they smell it again, or even further know which dog they are smelling if they know the dog?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Making more friends is a goal.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.